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Thankgul Thursday – Clyde Shokes

            On this Thankful Thursday, I am very thankful for the gift of Clyde Shokes to my life. Clyde has been a member of First Baptist Church of Charleston for his entire life. He is a fixture at the front door as a greeter. If Clyde is absent, everyone inquires about him. They miss his gift of a hard candy, but they miss his warm greeting even more. If I am absent, I know I will get a cheerful telephone call from Clyde telling me how much I was missed. He and his wonderful wife Millie and Carol and I share the same wedding anniversary, not the year, but the date. Although she has been homebound for several years now, Clyde remains cheerful. He is quick to tell you how God has blessed them. Clyde loves the Lord’s Prayer and is pleased every time the congregation prays it. On this Thankful Thursday, I am thankful for the presence of Clyde Shokes in my life.

            Thankful Thursday is a day to express gratitude for those who have contributed so much to our lives. Select someone and let him or her know of your gratitude. You will be so glad that you did. Develop an attitude of gratitude. Say Something Nice; Be a Lifter.

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168 Ways To Communicate Better Now – 48 – 49 – 50

48. Be thankful.

Say thank you often and mean it.

Send notes of appreciation.

Share. 

49. Be thoughtful.

Look for ways to be helpful.

Give assistance before being asked.

 Be inclusive.  

50. Be thorough.

Uncover the facts.

Do more than expected.

Plan ahead.

Check your work.

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Thankful Thursday – Margaret (Peg} Madsen Whitaker

            On this Thankful Thursday I am thankful for Peg Whitaker. Peg is a rare combination of educator, business woman, gardener and hostess. She grew up on John’s Island, South Carolina and graduated from St. John’s High School. After graduation from the College of Charleston, she met and married her Air Force husband and moved to New York City. She received her Master’s degree from New York State University and her Ph.D. from New York University. She became the director of curriculum in the Long Island, New York School System. After her artist husband died, she came back to John’s Island to take care of her mother and later restored her home with its magnificent views. She worked for a time with Tidelands Realty where I first met her. She and I served together on The Community of Readers organization, a group to promote reading in the public schools. Peg’s dinner parties brought together an interesting, lively cast of characters where food was wonderful but conversation was paramount. Peg is one of the most thoughtful people on the planet. She does not have E-mail so tell her about this post when you see her or call her. Of course, I am mailing her a copy.

            Thankful Thursday is a day set aside to say thank you to the people who have contributed to our lives. It is a day to let someone know how much you appreciate him or her. You will be glad that you did.

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Thankful Thursday – Christopher Smith

            On this Thankful Thursday I am thankful for my grandson, Christopher Smith. Christopher, son of Suzanne, is working toward a Master’s Degree in Spanish at the University of Tennessee at Chattanooga. He completed his undergraduate degree at UT Knoxville a couple of years ago and spent a summer in Mexico. He is an artist, Renaissance reenactor, and he fences. He has established himself as an outstanding employee at the Panera Bread Company.  His goal is to become a teacher. He carried on the tradition of the Carnells, skipping me, Fries and Gossetts by becoming a Mason. My dad would be so proud of that and so would Liz’s dad. On this Thankful Thursday, I am thankful for my grandson, Christopher.

            Thankful Thursday is a day to recognize the contributions of someone to your life. Let him or her know how important she or he is to you. Develop an attitude of gratitude. You will be so glad that you did.

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Thankful Thursday – Martha and Don Gardner

            On this Thankful Thursday I am grateful for Martha and Don Gardner. They were two of the first people we met when we moved to Charleston and part of a very involved group of young professionals at FBC. They were members of the Sunday school class I led for many years. They would leave my class and go listen to Bob Boston at Circular Congregational Church. When LeAnn was born, the Sunday school class took Martha a pecan pie to the hospital. Don thought that she was the only daughter that was ever born. I think he probably still does. After Hugo Don cut up a huge tree in my backyard and helped haul it away. I worried that one false move with that chainsaw and his career as a dentist would be ended. Martha telephoned me at all different times of the day and night after Liz died to check on me. Her cheerful voice always lifted my sagging spirit. I could write about either of them individually, but they form a terrific couple and represent what family is all about. When I stop to count my blessings, Martha and Don Gardner come quickly to my mind.

            Thankful Thursday is a day set aside to recognize those who are important to our lives. Who are you thankful for today? Let him or her know of your gratitude. You will be glad that you did. Develop an attitude of gratitude. Say Something Nice; Be a Lifter.

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