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Thankful Thursday – Mayor Keith Summey

On this Thankful Thursday I am thankful for the gifts that Mayor Keith Summey brings to my life. He has been extremely supportive of the employees of the City of North Charleston. He gave me the opportunity to work with all of them – all of them. Many cities train department heads and supervisors, but North Charleston opened the training to every employee. We did not separate them by rank. We mixed all levels. It was a tremendous experience. Some employees with the most unpopular jobs were the most dedicated. Mayor Summey took one of the courses along with other employees, had good attendance and did his homework. He has a great vision for the city and a wonderful way of relating to the people. I have seen him in many different venues and he is always the same. He was the first to issue a proclamation for Say Something Nice Day which gave the effort instant credibility. His associates Ray Anderson and Bob Connella laid the groundwork. Mayor Summey sometimes runs the cash register at Aunt Bea’s Restaurant, a great place to eat, but you had better go there hungry. If you haven’t been to the old city of North Charleston lately, you owe it to yourself to go. The transformation is miraculous. Take a good look at what vision, hard work and perseverance can accomplish. On this Thankful Thursday, I am thankful for the gift of Keith Summey to my life.

Thankful Thursday is a day set aside to recognize the importance of someone to our lives and to let her or him know of our gratitude. Develop an attitude of gratitude. Say Something Nice; Be a Lifter. You will be glad that you did.

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168 Ways To Communicate Better Now – 96 – 97 – 98

96. Respect yourself.

You are a wonderful person.

You have a contribution to make.

You cannot give what you don’t have. 

 97. Return telephone calls promptly.

People will love you.

You will be unique.

They will not be hanging over your head. 

98. Seek forgiveness.

You ‘II feel better.

You ‘II reduce your anxiety.

You were wrong.

 

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168 Ways To Communicate Better Now – 93 – 94 -95

93. Remain flexible.

It will keep you young.

It will keep you vital.

It will keep others guessing.  

94. Remove distractions.

You can concentrate better.

You will accomplish more.

You will be able to find your stuff. 

You will experience less stress.

 95. Respect others.

You will gain respect.

You will be surprised by the results.

You will experience less anguish.

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Disrespect

            Congressman Joe Wilson’s outburst during the Joint Session of Congress has nothing to do with his political disagreement with President Obama. As a congressman and as a citizen he has more than ample opportunities to express those concerns. His outburst shows a tremendous lack of respect first for himself, then for the president of the United States, then for the people of his district in South Carolina and fourth for the Congress.

            His apology was insincere. “The leadership asked me to apologize.” What a terrible example he has set for the democratic process. His comment added no light to the debate, but rather focused attention on himself and reflected badly on the people who sent him there.

            Many of us have mounted a campaign to return civility to our public discourse. Joe Wilson has become the poster person to remind us how badly such a campaign is needed. Honest debate is essential in a democracy, but disrespect for the opponent is counterproductive.

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