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Thankful Thursday – Clarence Glover

On this Thankful Thursday, I am thankful for the gifts that Clarence Glover brings to my life. Clarence grew up on Johns Island, graduated from Clemson, and went into the army. He spent his career at the Charleston Navy Shipyard as an engineer. He and his long suffering wife Sarah are pillars at First Baptist Church of Charleston. Clarence has a real sense of humor and is a genuine cut-up. In fact my wife, Carol, says that we can no longer sit together at meetings because we feed off each other and disrupt everything. What I admire most about Clarence other than the fact that what you see is what you get, is that he is able to get to the heart of the matter. He can and does ask the difficult questions that no one else will ask. He served as clerk during part of my term as church moderator. I could count on Clarence to get the minutes both concise and accurate. It is not an easy task. Clarence enjoys flying his own airplane and tried his best to kill me when I was reckless enough to fly with him. When that didn’t work, he flew over the waters surrounding Folly Beach and showed me all of the sharks out there. He clearly indicated that they would enjoy a good Mitch meal. He is devoted to Sarah, his children and grandchildren. Clarence brings a real gift to my life. He is the rare individual who can disagree without being disagreeable. He is a booster of Say Something Nice Sunday. On this Thankful Thursday, I am thankful for the presence of Clarence Glover in my life.

Thankful Thursday is a day set aside to recognize the importance of someone to our lives and to let her or him know of our appreciation. Develop an attitude of gratitude. Say Something Nice; Be a Lifter. You will be glad that you did.

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Thankful Thursday – Barbara Vaughn

On this Thankful Thursday I am thankful for the gifts that Barbara Vaughn brings to my life. I have known this talented woman since the day she first came to the Charleston Speech and Hearing Center where she started her career as a speech/language clinician. She moved on to become the ombudsman in the City of Charleston and later Director of Media Relations. Mayor Joe Riley recognized something that I already knew. Here was a hard-working, dedicated, gifted person who knows how to stick with a job until it’s done. She does all of this with charm and good humor. Barbara came to Charleston from her native Alabama and is a graduate of the University of Alabama. I have known her children all of their lives. Her daughter, Mary Chris, served on the Say Something Nice Sunday committee before she returned to full time teaching and her daughter Elis is the mayor of Cayce, SC. Son Ryan has an aquarium shop in West Ashley. Barbara loves to travel, but is really immersed in all things Charleston. She represents the city and the mayor well. Way back, she helped make my daughter Suzanne’s wedding dress and veil and I still own and use an armoire that she rescued and refinished. I am so happy that Barbara and her family are a part of my life. On this Thankful Thursday, I am grateful for the gifts that Barbara Vaughn brings to my life. Pictured are Barbara, Mary Chris, Elise, Caroline,Emma and Zoe.

Thankful Thursday is a day set aside to recognize the contributions of someone special to our lives and to let her or him know of our gratitude. Develop an attitude of gratitude. Say Something Nice; Be a Lifter. You will be glad that you did.

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Thankful Thursday – Bernie Wright Otterbein

 Wednesday Night Group: Pete, Mitch, Carol, MaryAnn, Robbie, Bruce, Bernie

On this Thankful Thursday I am thankful for Bernie Otterbein who is celebrating a birthday on April 20th. Bernie is one of the friendliest, most generous people I know. She makes you feel good just to be around her. Bernie grew up in Avon, New York and studied horticulture at Alfred State College. She is a member of our Wednesday night dinner group and adds life to the party. She is a fantastic cook and her chocolate chip cookies are the best. She is a star performer in the West Ashley High School cafeteria after a career at Orange Grove. She goes to the West Ashley High School basketball games and that just makes the students love her more. She is a very active member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church. Her Christmas decorations are nothing short of fantastic. She is president of her neighborhood association. Wherever we go to eat, all of the children big and small she has known over her career come up to say hello. What a testimony to this caring person. On this Thankful Thursday, I am thankful for my friend Bernie Otterbein.

Thankful Thursday is a day set aside to recognize the importance of someone to your life. Let her or him know of your gratitude. Develop an attitude of gratitude. Say Something Nice; Be a Lifter. You will be glad that you did.

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Thankful Thursday – Wendell Thomas Guerry

On this Thankful Thursday, I am thankful for Tom Guerry. Tom combines the rare qualities of a scholar’s inquisitive nature and a pastor’s heart. For many years he taught in the religion department of Charleston Southern University having joined the faculty when Dr. John Hamrick was president. He and wife Vickie were in the Sunday school class that I led for many years at First Baptist Church of Charleston. Tom should have been teaching the class. We traveled together to many American Speech Language and Hearing Association conventions along with their son, Ben. On one such trip we attended services at the Crystal Cathedral. In addition to being an insatiable reader, Tom is a master woodworker. Carol and I prize the hand carved Chrismons he gave us for several years. Both Tom and Vickie use sign language fluently. He along with Dr. Hamrick and Dr. Monty Knight officiated at our wedding. Tom is one of the original members of our Monday Lunch Bunch and is responsible for our changing from a monthly to a weekly schedule. He politely refused the group’s help in constructing his much prized barn. He did an exchange pastorate many years ago with a pastor from England and has led tours of important Baptist sites there. He is now an adjunct professor at Webster University. Tom was born and grew up in North Charleston. He still is involved in the preaching ministry at several churches especially the French Huguenot Church.

Thankful Thursday is a day set aside to recognize someone important to our lives. Who are you thankful for today? Let her or him know it. You will be glad that you did. Develop an attitude of gratitude. Say Something Nice; Be a Lifter.

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Thankful Thursday – Jack Powers

            On this Thankful Thursday I am thankful for Jack Powers. Jack is a friend from Woodruff and Furman days. He and I have known each other for a lot of years, but got to know each other best during two years in Mr. Brissie’s speech class. Jack reminds me of that passage in the Bible about iron sharpening iron. Because Jack is good at everything he touches, he always causes me to want to get better at what I do. Jack is the embodiment of those values we learned growing up in a small town and on a cotton mill villages: hard work, honesty, loyalty, patriotism, devotion to family and to God. When Jack gives you his word, you can depend on it. Jack and Audrey are a great couple and great parents. I probably should add grandparents to that list. It seems that I have known Audrey and her parents forever. After graduating from Furman, Jack had a great career with Criovac Corporation. Jack remains a staunch Furman supporter and still goes to as many games as possible. He and Audrey have attended the Hamrick Lectures in Charleston and we get together each year for our high school class reunion. Jack and I share some social, political, and religious views that are not always the most popular. Our friendship has only grown stronger and richer over the years. On this Thankful Thursday, I am grateful for the presence and influence of Jack Powers in my life.

            Thankful Thursday is a day set apart to recognize someone who is important in your life. Let her or him know of your gratitude. Develop an attitude of gratitude. Say Something Nice; Be a Lifter. You will be glad that you did.

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