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Say Something Nice Now Available as eBook!

Michael — Tue, 09 Aug 2011 14:33:31 +0000

I wanted to draw everyone’s attention to the fact that one of my most popular titles, Say Something Nice: Be A Lifter, is now available as an ebook. You can get it on Amazon.com for the Kindle or at Barnes & Noble in the epub format which is readable by the Nook and many other devices. So whether you have a Kindle or Nook, iPad or Sony eReader, or maybe even just a PC or laptop, there is a format that will work for you!

Of course if you would like to order printed copies, or multiple copies for use in an office, school or other organization, you can still order them directly from me from the Say Something Nice page.

Embrace Risks – Key 51

Mitch — Mon, 16 Aug 2010 14:38:57 +0000

Nothing ventured; nothing gained. Take a chance. Push your boundaries. What do you have to lose? Get out of your box. Turn questions around. Put yourself in situations where your only option is to learn and grow. You will not learn or grow in your cozy den watching television. Ethel Barrymore said, “You must learn day by day, year by year to broaden your horizon. The more things you love, the more you are interested in, the more you enjoy, the more you are indignant about – the more you have left when anything happens.” She is right, but I would say that the more you practice these things, the greater your rewards resulting in a life well lived. When people come to the end of their earthly journey, the most frequent laments are about things they did not do not the things they did do. Let today be a day of new adventures both mentally and literally.

Polish Your Image

Mitch — Tue, 10 Aug 2010 14:57:43 +0000

In economic down times such as these you need every edge you can get to position yourself as the right person for the right job at the right time. When times are tough, it is time to return to the basics, to the tried and true. People want to feel comfortable with you. In times such as these employers are less willing to take a chance. Manage your image. Everything counts. Remember that you are always on stage. Someone is always watching. You are always communicating. Make certain that you communicate the message that you intend to send. If it is possible to misunderstand what you say or do, someone will.

Be well groomed – hair, fingernails, shoes, crisp appearance.

Be polite. Put the other person at ease.

Be attentive. Maintain eye contact with the other person.

Listen actively. Do not fake it. Listening is key.

Scrub your language. Use absolutely no profanity.

Adjust your attitude. Be positive and enthusiastic – not cocky.

Be early. If you are late, you are dead.

Be prepared to answer and ask questions.

Be honest and tactful.

Under no circumstances criticize your previous employer.

Practice your handshake. It should be firm, but no death grip.

Send a thank you note after an interview.

Communicate – Key 47

Mitch — Mon, 19 Jul 2010 12:22:22 +0000

Most of us are not mind readers. You need to communicate your thoughts, your wishes and your dreams. You also need to listen to your partner’s response or lack of responses. Communication is a two way street. Remember that you are always communicating something. You are always on stage. Be sure you are communicating the message you really want to send. If you are unclear or evasive we will supply the missing information and it most likely will not be accurate. There is never a vacuum of information. People cannot tolerate not knowing; therefore, they make up what they do not know. If there is something that I should know, you tell me. Be mindful of your body language. Everything about you enhances or distorts your message. Body language is anything other than your actual words.

Thankful Thursday – Jean Wallace

Mitch — Thu, 08 Jul 2010 13:20:52 +0000

Today on this Thankful Thursday I am thankful for my sister. She is a modest but significant influence on so many lives. Her home is a magnet for her children, grandchildren and all their many friends. She and husband, John, have created an environment that exudes love, friendship and respect. She is generous to a fault. The 4^th of July celebration at their home is a textbook example of the real America that is still out there. I have been blessed in so many ways and my sister is one of those blessings. I salute you, Jean, on this Thankful Thursday.

Thankful Thursday is my response to Thirsty Thursday promoted by the Charleston, SC Riverdogs baseball team as a way to increase attendance at the games. Go to the games, but use the money you would spend on beer to send a nice card to someone you are thankful for.

Linger -Key 45

Mitch — Tue, 06 Jul 2010 00:59:13 +0000

Relish the conversation, the cup of coffee, the flower garden, the view. Smell the roses. Let the dirt trickle through your fingers. Enjoy the breeze. Lie on the cool grass. Gaze at the stars. Hold hands a little longer. Taste the moment. Don’t sacrifice this special moment to what will be or what might have been. Sit quietly and just listen. Time rushes by so quickly that in our haste we will miss the part of life that is so important. We need to replenish our souls. What a wonderful, beautiful world we live in! Don’t miss it. When this moment is gone, it is gone forever. Let the laughter bathe your soul. Feel the spirit, the energy, the love, the compassion that is all around you. This moment is what we have.

Thankful Thursday – Lori

Mitch — Thu, 01 Jul 2010 13:01:27 +0000

Today is Thankful Thursday, the day we celebrate our gratitude for the people in our lives. It will make you and the ones you remember feel better. Everyone needs encouragement. Today I am thankful for Lori, the creative mind behind all the graphic designs and printing used in Say Something Nice Sunday and at First Baptist Church of Charleston. Lori is the administrative assistant to the pastor. She is the mother of two delightful daughters and still finds time to be creative. She edited and designed by little book, Say Something Nice; Be a Lifter. She is a joy to work with and is a fountain of ideas.

Who are you thankful for today? Let him or her know about your gratitude.

Set Goals – Key 44

Mitch — Mon, 28 Jun 2010 11:59:27 +0000

What are your priorities for your life, your relationships, your work, your spiritual development? Give each of these areas of your life serious thought. Develop meaningful goals for every part of your life. Write them down or they are just wishful thinking. Put them where you can read them every morning and every night. Review and revise as life changes. Develop action steps that move you forward. At the end of every day, ask yourself this question and answer it honestly. What have I done today that moves me toward my goal? Setting meaningful, relevant goals is a vital aspect of self-leadership. You are not depending on a supervisor or someone else to impose them. You are in charge of you. Setting your own goals gives you a major boost on your journey.

Christian Civility in Warehouse

Mitch — Wed, 30 Sep 2009 13:35:34 +0000

Good news! Christian Civility in an Uncivil Worldis is now in the warehouse. We are there at last. Order the book at the Smyth & Helwys website. It is perfect for small group discussions and ideal to help combat hate speech.

Christian Civility

Mitch — Fri, 19 Jun 2009 17:06:58 +0000

My new book is scheduled to come out in approximately August of this year. Some of the contributers are listed below.

A few of the chapter titles have been set. They are as follows….

. Raushenbush – Foreword

Allen – Bringing People of Faith Together

Burleson – Christian Civility and the Internet

Carnell – The Power of Words

Dyck – Holy Conferencing

Gehring and Kelley – Civility for the Common Good

Mouw – Good Manners for Public Christians

Mckibbens – The Minister as Friend

Sauls – What We Need Is More Maturity

More will be posted as they become available.